Sometimes we make some absurd stuff that makes us feel embarrassed and odd, most people try to justify their wrongdoings and others are just praying to stop. if you see yourself perfect and do not need to change any habits then do not continue reading this, but if you are one of those who feel there is something wrong with their personality and want to regenerate themselves then read on.
Here are some illogical examples that most people always do which they need to get rid of:
The name itself is a huge example of contradiction. Some people claim that sometimes we need to tell a lie or two to avoid someone or ourselves from being hurt or embarrassed, seriously?? So you are just going to lie to others for that lame reason, you will get caught anyway and it will not be pretty, besides, how a lie could be white? Wake up folks a lie is a lie no matter what were your intentions when you mouthed it is still a lie and you should feel shameful not relief after doing it.
Make Them Jealous:
This is by far the stupidest thing anyone can do, can you even imagine that some people have some coaching sessions on how to make their partner jealous , Eww. How you would degrade yourself that way, you are not only doing something wrong to your partner but also you are Humiliating yourself. However, if your partner is not taking care of you as before, or kind of lost interest in the relationship then you have to talk to them and reason it out or even have a couple’s therapy, there are many appropriate ways to overcome and mend relationships problems, stop being Juvenile and grow up.
Hesitate too much:
Some people find it so hard to make decisions especially if they are choosing between two things, it can take them days or even months until they make their decision. however, am not saying that we should rush ourselves but we should give ourselves a time limit to finalize our choices, as life is running fast it will not wait for us to stop chickening out. And as they say, “ when you are not sure, flip a coin because when the coin is in the air, you realize which one you are actually hoping for”
Being too practical:
Being too practical may hold you back from making the things you want, it will distract you from focusing on fixing or accomplishing things. For instance, if you are going for a job interview you will be only concentrating on projecting how much you are a professional and an applied person which will sidetrack you from introducing yourself and your skills in a proper way, you will just be focusing on letting them believe how much you are a practical person, and that might not be their goal in the first place so try to cool it down a bit.
The best thing in the word is to be a straightforward person, otherwise, people will get annoyed and confused at your company, they will not want to deal with you as they cannot understand your implications. Besides, it is better for you to be frank because when you are an indirect person you will just put pressure on yourself for the sake of hiding your true intentions and purposes. as result, It is better to get rid of this personality trait for you will be less offended by any criticisms against you, you will develop a thick skin, and the best of all, you will block any dramas off your life.